On dating apps I go: I'd really like to go out with this girl, but there's no way she'd swipe right on me, but I guess that girl is okay and might actually swipe right on me so I'll try to get the second one.

And I'm not talking about models (insta or pro), I talking about normal looking, interesting, geeky, adventurous girls. I think I'd have a marvelous life with someone like that, but if I stay the way I am, it's just not gunna happen.

I don't blame anyone for this reality, not even myself.

When I'm overweight, I'm less confident, I spend less time grooming myself, less time picking out cute outfits, spend more time as a couch potato.

All those things both cause and effect and globally unattractive features. I'm on my second week (day 9), and I really want it to work this time.

I've got the job, I'm getting the car, all I need is the girl. (Matthew McConaughey reference)

Morality Question: Is it right or wrong to date someone who you can tolerate and think is alright because you believe they are the highest quality partner you can currently obtain? (A belief backed by anecdote mind you).

I used to be over 300 lbs, now I'm 255. I have a feeling if I break into onederland, my confidence is going to rocket right up, my clothes, my attitude, my energy are going to sky rocket.

I know being with partner I'm attracted to isn't the be all and end all of joy and happiness, but I think it would be nice.

I feel bad not being attracted to women I'm not attracted to, has anyone felt that guilt? They deserve love as much as anyone, why can't I love them that way? At the very least I'm always kind, I hope that's enough.

What do you think?

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