This might seem like a stupid question but I really want to know from someone who has lost a lot of weight but were at first told they could never do it.. were you judged or praised by those people?
It might seem like a stupid question to ask but I have some family members who have judged me on my weight calling me fat and telling me they don’t believe me when I say I’ve been trying to lose weight for years and telling me I’d be prettier if I was skinny (that one hurt me a lot since I’ve been struggling to lose weight for ages). I feel like these people will still continue to call me fat whilst I’m clearly losing and have the stupid “if you were fat once no matter how skinny you are now you’re still fat” kinda mindset.
I’m not going to let these people stop me from trying since I’m doing this for myself and not for them! I just wanted to know what other people’s experiences with these types of people have been and how you handled it!
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