So lately I've been getting a lot of comments. "How did you lose weight?", "Man, you look so good now.", etc. It's just...crazy. First of all, I don't know how people ask me how I did it. After I tell them they just go on disappointed. Like did you really expect "weight-loss teas" to do the trick? And since when do I look good....now? I don't need to hear this. Especially when it's from people you care about.

I was working out earlier today and my mom says "Your butt has shrunk!" Usually this wouldn't have hurt me. I honestly don't care what my body looks like, very happy with my progress and determination. However, I went off. I'm tired of people asking and commenting on my body. I don't care what you have to say, I'm doing this for ME. I work hard every day. So comments on MY body aren't needed. Even I'm starting to dislike compliments. I just can't stand that nobody complimented me like this when I was overweight. It really hurts, honestly.

Although I do know some compliments come from a good place, alot of people seem to be shallow. I used to enjoy all the feedback and attention I got, but now it just makes me feel like I wasn't good enough back then. When I know I was a good person inside and out.

What about you guys? Anything happen to y'all like this?

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