Throughout my whole life I've been known as the athletic in shape guy. That all changed after the military. I've gained alot of weight.

The moral of this post. Is im not sure how to deal with these relationships. I've struggled reconnecting with anyone due to embarrassment, being ashamed of what happened to me. I'm significantly overweight and now old friends, family members, girls. Its hard to even consider seeing any of them.

Granted I'm In a way better place now. I'm being more active. And I'm actively working on my weight issues. But how have some of you dealt with this?

I wish I could pause all these relationships I've had in the past and just workout and lose weight then be lime hey! Thats obviously not a reality.

I know some of the responses are gonna be, If they don't accept you for who you are. But the reality is I don't accept who I am right now.

Just lost looking for some guidance maybe? I don't know haha.

-STR

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